PERHAPS THIS THEORY IS WHY I AM SO UNLUCKY! help
i don't believe those people who say "i love you" when i know what they really mean is "i need you to love me". i have never loved someone because i needed it back from them, because i wouldn't love them if they didn't love me the same way. in my mind, love doesn't work that way. love is not something you take from a person. it does not go along with expectation of return. love is not like christmas presents. it is not an even-dollar-value gift exchange. it is more like a birthday present. it is a personal celebration of someone's existence, no strings attached. and the miracle is when it is independently equal and reciprocal
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7 comments:
but i'm probably wrong about this.
I think you are probably right. In fact, definitely. Every time I breathe it is there...But, sometimes I find it easier to treat the unattainable as the unwanted. Not honest, maybe, but it helps the pill go down easier.
But now that I think about it, that comment may be far from your point.
Don't know who all these people are here but hey, I can relate, no abyss here.
Love is love is. Just. IS. I think it can exist without reciprocation, but reciprocating can be like Miracle Grow. There's nothing more attractive sometimes than when someone likes/wants/loves you, you know?
infinite, so good to see you here! and your usual insight. my leaves are brown, i've got no flower, no wonder i feel like a weed. and yes, i could use a little miracle grow of my own. something sweet that won't get snatched away when the wife finds out.
What do you mean when the wife finds out. Don't tell me you are fooling around with a married man! you should be ashamed. get a life of your own and leave married men alone. it's a slippery slope you are sliding down and when you hit bottom, you will realize how wrong you were. I know women who have traveled down the same road you are on and they have either ended up without anyone or realized how wrong their choices have been and wish they could change it all.
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